Thursday, April 30, 2009

Memories

Being alone at home gives you much time to think about yourself, of what you want , your needs and your weekness. Since mom has gone out of town for a few days. I had enough time for myself which I generally don’t get when she is around.

I was watching mp3 ( mera pehle pehla pyaar ) a hindi movie about a girl and a boy and their love story. It made me think, we were the same when we were in our school. Those bets on silly things, and those dares and enjoying together in recess and free lectures.
I still remember those days, some of which I would love to share with you guys. It was in our classes we had lectures from 7 in the morning to 5 in the evening continuous. And we used to get a break of half and hour or smething, we were playing truth and dare and we dared a guy to go and ask an unknown girl her age. Lol… and he actually went and asked a passerby her age.
Another incident I remember was during the first day on diwali, and unfortunately we had our exams that day what we did was we decided to come to school a bit early in morning and a friend of mine brought “aapti bomb” and we were bursting crackers in the school no teacher came to know about it that time but later on the same day after the exams we tried our stunts and tried bigger bombs the teachers got to know, but no one knows who exactly did it till this day.
We had this thing in school, during winter we would wear sweaters in the morning but as the 2nd lecture get over we used to tie it around our waist, it was cool you know sport shoes, sweater tied up around your waist and the school dress used to be knee length. It used to look pretty.
Always used to sit on the last bench the whole group. During free lecture’s we me and a friend of mine used to go to the ground floor and spend time with our PT teachers, sakpal sir and parab teacher. Or sometimes go in computer lab and check orkut and chat with friends or sometimes when in really studious mood go to library and read some intresting books. In 9th or something there was this new gadget that was available “the mp3” that was now another option for us, during free lecture or even when the teacher is teaching we used listen to songs on the last bench.
We had Sanskrit in 7th, but the thing was the people who had took Sanskrit had to wait after the school for an hour the lectures were scheduled after the school hours. First 2 months were very intresting as we were learing a new language but later it was damn boring, it was fun to sneak out of the class without getting noticed. But we had to pay a high amount for that, we barely passed in that subject that year. Later we changed it to French. French was much cooler.
We had our French tuitions just after the school, so we all friends used to have our lunch together. I enjoyed that a lot.
Even during our recess, what we used to do is we had names or songs or some poetry or some shayari’s decided for everyone in the class, and yes how can I forget the teaseing with the bf/gf’s name or the crush was the most amazing part. We had 30mins recess, so we kept the first 10mins to eat you’re your lunch which almost the whole class used to share and eat, we used to share from each nook and corner of the class. And the rest 20 mins we used to sing songs, tease , call out names and just have fun together. Good thing was that no one ever took offence on that, it used to be just like a party everyone used to dance sing songs and the dance was on the top on the desk btw! :P
God and that talking on phone the whole time and sms’in every second and keep your friends updated with your minute to minute activities is the cutest part
Those were days, and I don’t think anything can replace that fun ever… I still love my school friends and I feel happy that I am still in contact with most of them. Thanks god!
If ever got a chance to go back to those days, I would love too….

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Sunday, April 26, 2009

Me Shivaji Raje Bhosle Boltoi

Me shivji raje bhosle boltoi, a new marathi movie released recently. It was houseful in the initial days and is still difficult to get tickets. With such a hot reception to the movie I expected it to be really nice. And my hopes were really high for it, though it did not fulfill my hopes to the fullest.
It showed a common Marathi man, who lives a normal life and the only earning man in the family of four. So obviously he is to face all the financial problems of the house. Well the story was good. But I guess they made the whole movie hypothetical.
I personally feel there was no need for shivaji maharaj to come in picture at all, I mean he hardly had any role, they could have just shown it in a different way like the hero is a follower of shivaji maharaj and takes lessons from his deeds and fight his way out of the problem. The graphics that they tried to show during the scene when shivaji maharaj rides on his horse and comes to the hero’s house looks absolutely fake. They were just trying to mix up “lage raho munnabhai”, “ rang de basanti”, and “ virudh” together.
The story was indeed good, but a bit more perfection in graphics and story board and yes, direction would have made a great effect!

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Thursday, April 23, 2009

elections!

The recent success of slumdog millionaire and the fact that “jai ho” bagged the oscar has made India very proud. “jai ho” is a term that Indian used in praising someone very often.and now that it is recognized worldwide, its makes them even more proud.
Its election time now, and congress has bought the copyright of the jai ho song and has decided to play it during their rallies. What I think is, is this some kind of a publicity stunt? Like they don’t really have any thing to back them up and win this time, so are they trying to get some attention to their party by playing the popular song during their rallies?
So next time people talk about congress, it wont be something like “ oh! The party who did this and that”, it will rather be “ oh! That party who has jai ho as their theme song”.
Sometimes I am just amazed by looking at these funny things people do. I guess the time is not far now, that we will see our politicians do item numbers on the popular songs and gain votes. Soon it might just be like just another reality shows we have to TV.
I think they got to know their priorities straight. Its about the government, its about India they are just making fun of it by using some movie songs and I guess that’s hindering the seriousness of elections.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

67 reasons why it is gr8 to be a gal <3

1. You live longer.
2. You mature faster.
3. You never have to pay for a drink.
4. Doors just get opened for you everywhere you go.
5. Heavy things are for boys to take care of.
6. So are spiders.
7. You’re patient when it doesn’t work right and don’t opt to immediately throw it out the window.
8. Taking pictures has real importance… it’s a documentation of your life.
9. You can multi-task.
10. You actually listen to directions.
11. When going to a formal event, you get to wear just one article of clothing.
12. You’re supposed to have a little woman meat on your hips.
13. Johnny Depp.
14. The bed is all yours.
15. You can love and hate something at the same time.
16. You (usually) get to be on bottom.
17. You can fake it if you’re tired or bored and they’ll never know.
18. Valentine’s Day is all about you.
19. Beyonce’s “Irreplaceable” just makes you happy even if you hate the song.
20. Baking is also a stress reliever.
21. You can get a massage without a hardon.
22. “That time of the month” is a great excuse to be a bitch for a week.
23. It’s also the best and most effective way to turn a guy down.
24. OMG shoes.
25. You think the idea of sack-tapping a guy is funny.
26. It’s perfectly normal to have a 2 hour conversation with your best friend.
27. In books or movies, happy endings actually make you happy.
28. You read instructions.
29. You already know you’ll be successful.
30. The current president just makes you realize women should rule the world.
31. You too get to think about sex 90% of your waking hours.
32. Clothes shopping is not just a chore.
33. Sex and the City.
34. You never have to worry that by just picking up something you’ll crush it.
35. If there’s a mirror, you’ll find it.
36. No one seriously questions your sexuality if you kiss the same sex.
37. Video games will forever be retarded.
38. You love miniature things, like mini gummy bears or tiny marshmallows.
39. Victoria's Secret Lip Plumper is just fun.
40. God gave you enough blood to work both.
41. Your ego isn’t the size of the US.
42. Everything you need is in your purse.
43. You take hot baths when you need to relax.
44. You’re not considered a pussy if you don’t hook up.
45. You feel totally comfortable asking for help or advice when lost or stuck.
46. They buy the condoms.
47. The Notebook.
48. You can cry your way out of a speeding ticket.
49. The thought of dinner with his family doesn’t scare you.
50. The closet is yours and yours alone.
51. The movie 300 kinda made you orgasm. Just a little.
52. When you’re mad, they might not find out until later when it’s convenient for you to let them know.
53. Girls’ nights whomp ass over boys’ nights.
54. You never have to deal with fixing electronics or cars.
55. You’re hygienic.
56. You can dance with the same sex at every opportunity.
57. You know how to match.
58. You know how to fold clothes.
59. No one is afraid of you when you walk down a dark alley at night.
60. Just talking about it makes you feel better.
61. Prince William is now single.
62. You never have to worry that the kid isn’t really yours.
63. No one thinks it’s weird if you squeal or make noises instead of words.
64. The idea of a man servant really appeals to you.
65. You will never be drafted.
66. No one secretly wonders how big you really are.


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67. You support world peace.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Delhi 6

Recently I went to watch a movie delhi 6. it started off well, with a basic introduction of Delhi and a bit of information about the characters in the movie and all. But as it proceeds there was no story at all, no synchronization between two scenes. And the worst part was the belief that the so called “KALA BANDAR” had a mother board on this chest. I mean to say, if the person is educated enough to understand what a mother board is then he is quite intelligent to understand that a monkey cant have a motherboard on himself. Sonam kapoor had no work in the movie, I guess she was there only cause there is a need of a heroine in every movie and another reason was just to add a song on her ie “masakali”. And the other thing that makes me feel disgusted was this that, the actor dies in the end then goes to heaven meets his dad eats jalebi with him and come back to life..that was utter nonsense.

After rang de basanti I expected a lot from the director. This was not what he is supposed to make. The movie is just chaos and confusion with stupidest things like a monkey with a mother board and things like he dies goes to heaven and comes back.
We expect a lot more from you guys yaar.

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Acquaintances

This though just came to my mind while surfing on facebook. A guy sent me a friends request who I just knew by name. like one of my friend knew him so it was just that I had heard about him once or twice. After he sent me the add request I got to know that I had 20 friends in common with him. Isn’t that wonderful? I mean u are connected to soo many people without even realizing it. And such social networking sites had actually made it easy for you to keep a check on familiar people.

Sometimes these acquaintances grow up into friendship then grows to bestfriends and then may end up falling in love with eachother or just have a fight and end everything there and there..so maybe be best friends for whole life. There are many possibilities and many things you cant predict. Life is surely a mystery. You never know what will happen next. But what I belive is, there is always some invisible magic or force which keeps giving you signs of what to do next, and you just have to understand those signs and do accordingly, I know I know this is very filmy and you might have even heard the same thing many times in different movies. But come to think of it, it is sort of true.

There are so many types of acquaintances, I’ll tell you somewhich happened with me itself.
I used to go to andheri everyday for my classes, there was this girl who used to get into the same bus with me from my busstop itself, and the fun part was she had her office just a level above my classes ie. We lived in the same area we used to catch the same bus at the same time and from the same bus stop and our destination was the same as well. We never talked but a just a usual smile. Who knows she might just turn out my friends neighbor or my mom’s friend’s daughter..you never know!

Another which most of the people in the world might have experienced and that is you see some one during the lunch hour in school everyday but never talk to and one day you get to know that he is your dance partner for the annual day. Its just destiny.

And isn’t it wonderful???


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Friday, April 3, 2009

Mumbai

Mumbai

Today I though to writing about Mumbai. And now I am stuck, I don’t know what to write about this city. I mean to say there is soo much in this city, so many things all happening at once. Just look outside your window, u will find different people doing soo many different things, there will be school kids going to school or coming back from there. There will be office going people who will be rushing for bus or train to get to their office in time. There will be college going kids who some maybe rushing to college while some just bunking and roaming around the city. There would be some beggars, waiting for the signal to go red, so they will go and beg for some money again.

In Mumbai you will find all the grades of the society, there are rich there are poor and there are the normal mumbaikars, middle class people who live their life freely. Yes there are tensions about finance and all but they are happy in their own way.

If we go to see from south Mumbai, there is a two extreme types of localities living there there is colaba, cuff parade, marine drive where its one of the most sophisticated area in Mumbai, then there is girgaum where there are people who are middle class and still have a potential in them. They are happy the way they are. They live in a small flat, or rather chawl.but content and happy with what they have. Coming a bit north there is dadar, one prominent area in Mumbai, u can say a the hub of Mumbai. And then going further north there Is bandra. You will find many film stars residing there. And then further north there is andheri, borivali and all, here you will find people who travel in train everyday, and their life is depended on the morning 9’oclock fast train to churchgate. They travel in trains everyday, no matter men or women the rush is the same and you have to fight for a place for youself.

But with all this hustle bustle and all the busy life everyone has. They are still happy with it, there is still the same humanity intact in this city. People will help you even if you are a stranger to them. They say that this city is filled with people with no heart. But being here and living in this very own city for so long I strongly deny it. It’s a city where even though there is no time for eachother, people still find ways to be there for eachother when they need it.


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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

44 things a girl would die for! <3

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1-touch her waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss her slowly

are you remembering this?


6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends

keep reading


11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight
back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes
her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?

16-ALWAYS HUG HER AND SAY "I LOVE YOU" WHEN YOU SEE HER.
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful... not sexy!
20-TELL HER THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!

oh, and on that last one... u need to show her you mean it too

21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kinda want you to get
us things
26-DONT LIE TO HER
27-DONT CHEAT ON HER
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a
good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she
doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can
always count on you

are you still reading this? u better be, its important

31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you
want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she
will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in
and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're
mad. If shes upset, comfort her

remember this next time you are with her


36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. LOOK DEEP INTO HER EYES AND TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so
she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your
fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes
and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. ALWAYS REMIND HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER

My take on .... EDUCATION!

Being a student, every student will say that they hate their syllabus, and why would they not hate it? Is there any need for a written exam for the subject like personal training and e.v.s ? don’t not EVS and PT mean just physical development and common knowledge about nature and surrounding?
Next talking about maths, on an avegare, a common man uses basic math like addition, subtraction, division, and multiplication. Then what is the use of learning all those formulas, theorems and solve all those problems who gives you not only stress but also results in students failing and then loosing hope that they can do something good in life. Why cant they keep some special subjects related to different profession like doctor, engineer, lawyer etc etc. so that, if a student wants to become a lawyer, he will choose the subjects which will actually help him to get through his dream, same will go for the doctors and other profession. I know this has loop holes, like the student going for lawyer will know just about his profession and will have no idea about other basic knowledge, well what is if I say that, let there be normal education till std 7th so that every student will get equal education and knowledge, then from 8th onwards people are quie smart enough to decide what they want to be so they can follow their dream. Let the students choose what they want to do. There is no use of studying the samething till graduation and then after that again take up a course of like years together and then get employed in your 30s with the lowest salary and then wait for the promotion. No doubt India is still going through the unemployment phase, and major portion of the population is soo dependent.

just a thought

Women are always blamed to be careless and selfish and also to some extend never understands a man. There are several jokes on women like how after getting married or by having a girlfriend a man’s life turns into hell. But why don’t guys try to understand the girl in their life.
What a girl wants in a little respect form the guy in her life and yes lots of love from him. And in return she gives you hell lot of things, she cares for you, looks after you, and also acts like a mother sometime. And this all comes naturally to her. She just loves treating her hubby or her boyfriend like her kid and which actually I think cause guys are like kids. Even though they grow up and are matured enough but they do have some childlike thing in them which best comes out when they are with their mother or else their wife/ girlfriend. A girl will never ask something which she knows her guy cant afford she will always understand him with all her heart. And she just expects the same back. Just that she wont say it until he crosses her line of patience.
For a girl her love of life is very important, her love comes before anything else in her life. Including her friends. But for a guy his love comes after everything else. That’s the biggest difference between a girl and a guy.