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I have always had more male friends than female; if I remember
correctly then I have not had more than 10 female friends in my entire life. Yes,
there are acquaintances or some people I hang out with because the situation
asks for it but, a sit down and actually have a connection with has happened
with people from the opposite gender. However the one female friend that has
made it through all these years was funnily enough, not really close to me back
in the day.
In school, I remember we always had a difference of opinion
and never happened to get along even if we tried. Whenever I reminiscence about
the old days the following incidents pops in my mind immediately.
A little background: a few select people from our class were
big Harry Potter fans (I still am a diehard Potter fan) so we would generally
discuss the books and the plots and trivia etc. the 5th Harry Potter
books – Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince had just released then and we
all wanted to lay our hands on it. And this friend – Oh did I mention that we
both share the same name? Her name is also Pooja, anyway, so Pooja had already
got the book and we all were super jealous about it.
*Recess*
Pooja came to me and says,”Dumbu dies!!!” and then before I could
react she wanders off to meet her other friends.
I was sitting there dumbstruck and furious at the same time!
Did she realise that she gave out the biggest blooper? Did she realise that she
has ruined the book for me.
My Mind started hyperventilating thinking if I would cry
when I get to that part of the book, what if I don’t cry? I am sure every
potter fan is going to cry when they read that part. What if now I am just
immune to it and I don’t feel anything at all. I was so furious!
Anyway, we moved on, grew up and college started soon. We were
not in contact much that time. And then a couple years back we happened to bump
into each other and decided that we should hangout soon. This “let’s hangout
soon” is used very colloquially even when you don’t really mean it, and I dismissed
it immediately. I knew that we were never going to get to the hanging out part
anyway. But to my surprise, we actually did decide to meet up and on one Monday
evening, after work, we decided to meet at the Starbucks near to our house. The
conversation flowed, the stories kept coming and by the end of it we realised
how similar we both were.
You know that the friendship is going to last when you are
comfortable to be your most vulnerable and honest self with that person. Even though
we had met after a lot of years, we did not begin on a formal setup; the
conversation felt like it was with someone I knew for ages! And that was the
beauty of it.
A photo posted by Pooja Mahimkar (@poojamahimkar) on
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